1. My son, if you keep spending on a woman and she never asked
you if you’re saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the
attention, don’t marry her.
2. My son, a woman could be a good wife to you, some could be a
good mother to your children but if you’ve found a woman like a
mother to you, your children and your family, please don’t let her
go .
3. My son, don’t confine the position of your wife to the kitchen,
where did you get that from? Even in our days, we had farm-lands
where they worked every morning... that was our office.
4. My son, if I tell you that you’re the head of the house, don’t look
at your pocket; take charge.
5. My son, if you want to have a long life, let your wife be in-charge
of your salary, it will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s
aware of the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in your care, she
will keep you asking even when all has been spent...
6. My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body is
nothing to be compared to the wound on her heart and that means
you may be in trouble living with a wounded woman.
7. My son, when you marry, if you live a bachelor-life with your
wife, you will soon be single again.
8. My son, in our days, we had many wives and many children
because of our large farm-lands and many harvests, there are
hardly any land for farming anymore, so embrace your woman
closely.
9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did meet your mother could
be your eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the
closet thing we did there was to embrace each other.
10. My son, don’t be carried away when you start making more
money, instead of spending your money on those tiny leg grlss that
never knew how hard you worked to get it, spend it on that woman
that stood by you even when there was no money, not those always
asking for money .
11. My son, when I threw little stones or whistled at the window of
your mum father’s house, to call her out, it was because I missed
her so much.
12. My son, whenever your girl changes, if it's because of money,
then she wont be a good wife.
13. My son, your mother, rode the bicycle with me before I bought
that tortoise car outside there, any woman that won’t endure with
you in your little beginning should not enjoy your riches.
14. My son, don’t compare your wife to any woman, make her see
reasons to change until u get tired.
15. My son, there is this thing you people call feminism, well, if a
woman claim to have equal right with you in the house, divide all
the bills into two equal parts, take one part and ask her to start
paying the other part.
16. My son, I met your mother a virgin and I took more yams to her
father, if you don’t meet your wife a virgin, don’t blame her, what I
didn’t tell you is that our women had prestige.
17. My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school because I was
foolish like many to think a female child won’t extend my family
name, please don’t make that mistake.
18. My son, your mother have once locked up the cloth I was
wearing and almost tore it because she was angry, I did not raise
my hand to beat her because of a day like this, so that I can be
proud to tell you that I never for once beat your mother.
19. My son, in our days, our women had more of natural beauty,
though I wouldn’t lie to you, some had minor painting of their
appellation mostly on their arms, the ones you people now call
tattoo, but don’t forget that they didn’t expose any part of their body
like your women of nowadays.
20. My son, your mother and I are not interested in what happens in
your marriage, handle your issues.
21. My son, remember I bought your mother’s first sewing machine
for her, help your wife achieve her dreams just as you’re pursuing
yours.
22. My son, don’t stop taking care of me and your mother, it’s a
secret of growing old and having your own children to take care of
you too.
23. My son, pray with your family, there is a tomorrow you don’t
know, talk to God that knows everything, everyday.
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