I remember a scene in Steve Harvey’s ‘Think Like A Man, Act Like A Woman’ movie where Steve says “You (women) can open the cookie jar (have sex with a man) after the man says the three magic words – I Love You”.
Ok Steve. So maybe that works in advanced countries where men find the misuse of the word repulsive. Even when they know they are falling in love, they still try hard to bury it deep down their bowels.
Welcome to Nigeria, where I love you is one of the most said words. Saying I love you to a Nigerian guy is only “a means to an end”.
It means absolutely nothing. I once heard a story of a guy that dated three friends. He composes a single text message without including their different names and only uses pet names after which he sends the message to all three of them at the same time making each of them feel like a queen in his castle that doesn’t exist.
Back to the subject matter. When should a girl open up her legs to her man? How does she know it is the right time? Leaving out all the religious mumbo jumbo that says sex should be after marriage considering the fact that very few people go by that – with all due respect.
When should a girl remove the lid from the cookie jar and give her man some cookies?
This is very controversial as different people have different opinions as to when and how to hand out the 'benefit package’.
How long does it take you to let him/her have a bite of you?
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