Monday, April 28, 2014

The Cowgirl: How To Ride Your Man With Supreme Confidence


I have a visitor in the house, Yvonne Bwala and she is ready to take us on a real kinky sex rideyourself, avoidance of doubt, she is only writing from a female perspective.



Let's have a drink and be ready for the big cowgirl ride of a life time.

Hello there, I want to thank Amebo for giving me this opportunity to educate our ladies on how they can give their men the best rides of their live.

We are going to look at the best fun sex position and how you can gain confidence as a Cowgirl. You may be shy now but you won't be if you follow these tips!

Learning how to ride your man with confidence and making it enjoyable for both of you is surprisingly easy. Just follow these simple steps and you will have a ton of fun.

It's Like Riding A Bike

The biggest misconception women have when it comes to riding on top of a guy during sex is that it requires a lot of skill to do it properly. But it really doesn't. In fact, in many ways, it's exactly like riding a bicycle.

The first few times you try it, it can be a bit nerve-wrecking and possibly even awkward. But each subsequent time you are on top of your man during sex, you will notice how it gets easier and easier. Eventually, you won't even feel nervous or awkward about it and will be focusing more on enjoying yourself.

The important point to take home is that to get to the stage where you can't wait to jump on top of your man and start riding him, you have to get through those awkward and nervous feelings first.

Sex In The Dark

Probably the easiest way to boost your confidence and take the pressure off when riding your man is to have sex in the dark. This way, you don't have to worry about having his eyes on you.

He Is Nervous Too

The biggest mistake women make when getting sexual is that their man is going to be just as nervous as they are, if not more so. Don't forget that they want to impress you too!

On top of this, he's going to be worrying about making sure that he stays hard, that he doesn't come too quickly, that you don't think his manhood is too small and that he is putting in a good performance.

Focus On Getting Yourself Off

Many women forget that guys adore seeing their partners get off. So the next time you are in a Cowgirl sex position, stop thinking about whether or not you are pleasing your man. Instead, just focus on what feels best for you.

What To Do When You're On Top

There are two main positions that you should be using when you are on top of your man. The first is the cowgirl position. In the cowgirl position, you will be on your knees, straddling your man and facing him. You can stay upright or lean forward and support yourself on your arms. You can then rest most of your bodyweight on your man's lap.

The other main position is called The 'Asian Cowgirl'. It's identical to the regular cowgirl position except that when you perform it, you will be on your feet with your knees bent. You can still rest most of your weight on your man's lap in this position.

Most women find the regular cowgirl position to be the most comfortable and enjoyable. Once you are in the cowgirl position that you find most comfortable, then it's time to get to work. There are 3 motions that you can perform when having sex on top.

These are:

Forwards And Backwards

If you enjoy clitoral stimulation during sex, then you will like this motion. Start by sitting right down into your man's lap and take him fully into you. Then simply rock forwards and backwards on top of him, rubbing your clitoris on his stomach.

Up And Down

Moving upwards and downwards requires a little more effort. You are going to use your legs to 'bounce' on your man's laps, allowing his penis to glide in deep and then out again. You'll find that this position requires a lot more effort than simply moving backwards and forwards.

Around And Around

This last movement is similar to the first, forwards and backwards. You are going to take your man deep into you. But instead of moving backwards and forward on him, you are going to be making a circular motion instead.

Now these three movements are a starting point for riding a guy while on top, but to truly enjoy yourself, then you are going to need to do a bit of experimentation to see what you like and enjoy the most.

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