Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Should I Stay Wtih Him?


Hi beautifuls, please help this young lady. She's an African Sweetheart reader who is really keen to get some advise. Kindly advise her as you would your sister. Thank you.



Good day African Sweetheart, I choose to share this with your blog, because a lot of responsible minds visit this blog, I'm 21 going on 22 and also a finalist in unibadan and I'm in a relationship that's almost 2 years old, December to be precise...

We often quarrel because of the distance between us and he keeps accusing of cheating because I'm in Ibadan and he his In delta! I love him like a retard misses the point... and honestly I cross my heart! I have never cheated! All I do is normal outing...

I love him so much, but the issue here is, he his a workaholic, he ain't romantic, he only return miss calls and the worse part is he has issues with communications! whenever I try to talk about our relationship he says " this is what I don't like" and I end up letting it be!

I'm really emotional to a fault and could do anything humanly possible to make him happy, I have never had any reason to cheat on him and I have never caught him cheating directly or indirectly!  But do you think it's normal for him not to be the calling nor pinging or sms type?
He keeps saying don't worry everything is fine, take my words! When I don't ping him for three consecutive days, he gets worried and say " you don't check on me anymore right"??

I think I'm been too loving or I'm been stupid, I don't know.... less I forget, my only friend thinks I'm stupid because I don't ask him for money nor anything, it's almost 2yrs and the last time I collected money from him his 2011 when we started dating!

He says I'm proud because I don't ask for things! Pls let me end it here, I'm just confused about this whole relationship i must be sincere... what do you think, be sincere and blunt... but I love him and don't wanna loose him....

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